The Dimmer
Missing HUMAN state: Uplifted
Core coping pattern: You seek quick comfort when your emotional energy drops.
When you slip into The Dimmer pattern, your inner light feels a little low, like someone turned the dial down on your spirit. It’s not depression; it’s depletion. You reach for anything that gives a quick lift: food, drink, shopping, screens, distraction, stimulation.
You may find yourself:
- Feeling flat, tired, or discouraged
- Struggling to feel joy
- Using comfort behaviors to cope
- Craving “something to look forward to”
- Feeling guilt or shame about how you self-soothe
This isn’t a discipline problem. It’s an uplift problem.
What you’re really needing:  Encouragement, inspiration, celebration, and small sparks of joy that lift you naturally.
Your HUMAN Reset Path: Micro-joy, gentle praise, connecting with positive people, remembering progress, choosing uplifting environments.
Get The Dimmer Consistency ToolkitCore Workplace Tendency
Energy fluctuates with support, encouragement, and the environment.
How You Contribute:
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Warm, relational, steady presence
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Strong team player
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Highly responsive to positive leadership
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Brings emotional intelligence to the team
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Loyal and consistent when supported
Where You Get Stuck at Work:
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Loses motivation when unappreciated
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Can disengage quietly
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Starts tasks but struggles to sustain energy
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Feels depleted by negativity or pressure
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Needs encouragement to re-engage
What Yo Need to Thrive (HUMAN Lens):
U = Uplifted
You need positive reinforcement, recognition, and a sense that their efforts matter.
Workplace message:“ When you feel valued, you shine.”
Get The Dimmer Consistency ToolkitPerformance Identity
Dimmers perform based on emotional energy.
When you feel supported or uplifted, you light up.
When undervalued, you dim.
Performance Strengths
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High relational awareness
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Perform well when the environment feels positive
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Strong sense of rhythm and feel
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Cooperative, team-oriented energy
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Calm, comforting presence
You shine when the vibe is good.
Stress Pattern
Under stress, the Dimmer’s system powers down.
Not because you don’t care, but because your spark is low.
This shows up as:
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Low energy
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Minimal activation
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Difficulty getting into “go time” mode
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Emotional flatness
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Hesitancy
How Performance Breaks Down
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Starting slow
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Difficulty staying mentally engaged
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Energy drops mid-performance
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Deflating after a mistake
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Struggling to self-ignite
Dimmers often wait for momentum instead of creating it.
Impact on Focus
Focus depends on mood and environment.
If the room is heavy, so is your attention.
Impact on Confidence
Confidence comes from feeling uplifted, not criticized. Negative feedback shuts you down.
Impact on Consistency
Consistency depends on how energized you feel, physically and emotionally.
The Reset You Need (U = Uplift)
You need:
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Small positive cues
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Encouragement
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Environments that feel energizing, not draining
A single spark can turn a Dimmer back on.
Get The Dimmer Consistency ToolkitThe Dimmer Consistency Toolkit
You'll get a personalized plan to break out of the cycle of overthinking, shutdown, or perfectionism — and finally follow through with confidence.
Inside, you’ll get:
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A complete breakdown of your HUMAN pattern
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Why consistency slips — and how to catch it sooner
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Body, brain, and belonging resets that work in real time
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Real-life scripts and scenario solutions
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A daily momentum plan you can stick to
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Tools for support, flexibility, and confidence — without pressure
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How to use cornhole (or any play) to build consistency faster
This isn’t motivation.
It’s a reset system, tailored to how your nervous system really works.
Show up with more ease, trust, and follow-through — every day.
Get The Dimmer Consistency Toolkit For $9About the HUMAN™ Framework
Every pattern in this assessment reflects one part of the HUMAN™ Framework: Heard, Uplifted, Meaningful, Autonomous, and Nurtured. These aren’t personality types or fixed identities. They’re temporary states shaped by stress, connection, pressure, and the stories we tell ourselves. When one of these needs is unmet, we slip into coping patterns like controlling, suppressing, drifting, hustling, or dimming our energy.
My work centers on helping people reconnect to their full humanity so they can perform, lead, compete, and live with clarity and ease instead of judgment and pressure. I blend psychology, nervous system science, and the power of play to help people feel grounded, confident, and connected... whether that’s on a court, a board, a workplace team, or in daily life.
I’m Michelle Thompson, a psychology PhD, performance coach, and creator of the HUMAN™ Framework. Through my work with athletes, organizations, and communities, I help people shift out of survival patterns and into states where they can think clearly, trust themselves, collaborate better, and show up fully.
If you’re ready to move from coping to connected, I’d love to support you in the next step.
Get The Dimmer Consistency Toolkit